PETER'S DILEMMA: I'm virtually housebound and my partner always goes to the shop up the street for the papers. I've noticed she's started going more often and friends tell me she's always chatting to the shop owner. There are times when I have been out with my wife and we've bumped into him but he ignores me and is all over her. I don't trust him. What can I do? IF you've a dilemma or want to give advice, phone Shereen on the Real Love Show on 0845 100 2101 between 10pm-1am on Saturday.

Or text her on 61001 or email shereen.tulloch@realradiofm.com Click here to listen to Real Radio online Real Love Show is on every Saturday and Sunday between 10pm-1am on Real Radio 100-101FM.

DANNY'S DILEMMA: I did something really silly. I went out the other night and had a one-night stand. I feel so guilty as I have just got married. Do I tell my wife? I don't want to upset her at this time of year. I know it's no excuse but I was very drunk and flattered someone else wanted me.

SHEREEN SAYS: Why would you want to spoil you're wife's Christmas? Is it only to ease your conscience? Personally I think you should suffer in silence until the festivities are over. Is 10 minutes of fun worth losing your wife for?

YOUR ADVICE Give the guy a break. Having a one-night stand at Christmas doesn't mean anything. There's a lot of drink flowing and people get carried away.

CHARLIE, Bearsden It's wrong at anytime of year to cheat never mind Christmas. It's one thing to have a kiss under the mistletoe and another to kiss under the duvet!

DAVY, Clydebank.

Most people have had a little indiscretion at Christmas. It was harmless fun and you shouldn't feel you have to tell your wife everything.

GRANT, Glasgow You are a spineless man if you can't keep it in your trousers. Pack your suitcase before you tell her because you'll be sleeping in the streets.

AMANDA, Anniesland

RACHEL'S DILEMMA: I'm sitting alone at home while my husband is out on his works Christmas night out. He's been out all day and he said he would be home at 7.30pm. It's just gone midnight and he's still out in a nightclub. I'm fuming. Should I go down to the club and see what he's up to? I thought about standing in a corner and spying on him.

SHEREEN SAYS:Don't be so ridiculous. If you turn up at the club and someone spots you then they will think you're a deranged nutter. Let him have some fun.

YOUR ADVICE You need to get a grip and go to bed. If my partner turned up at a night out I would be angry.

MICHAELl, Charing Cross You're partner must be a love god if you think every single women who meets him wants to sleep with him. Just because you want him doesn't mean anyone else does. Sort yourself out.

HILARY, Glasgow If you think there is something going on then I would definitely head down to the club. Pack his suitcase just in case!

MANDY, Glasgow LAST WEEK'S DILEMMA . . . I want to see my lover at Xmas

Last week Shirley was looking for some advice as her lover preferred to spend Christmas with his wife and kids.

She's been seeing the guy for five years and they have a three-year-old son. He says it's impossible for him to get away and he may be able to see them for an hour on boxing day. What does she do? She knows he's making false promises when he says he's going to leave her.

SHEREEN SAYS: At least you realise he will never leave his wife. Unfortunately, you're the bit on the side. You got pregnant and it seems as if you're the inconvenience. You have to decide what's best for you and your child. It's obvious this man is causing you heartache and perhaps it's time to call it a day.

YOUR ADVICE I have no sympathy for you. You're messing about with a married man and you deserve all you get. What goes around comes around!

ANGELA, Glasgow I can't believe women still fall for it when a guy says he's going to leave his wife. You need to wake up and smell the coffee hen!

JACK, Glasgow I think Shirley should kick this guy to the gutter and give him an ultimatum, me or the wife. I don't think she or her little boy should be treated like this.

CAROL, Glasgow